For me its the best option to cut my losses but this isn’t the case in every relationship where couples have developed real love for one another

I’m in the military. I live in Virginia and my girlfriend in Alabama. Lately she’s been accusing me of cheating and I don’t know what to do. Recently I got two jobs, so I had very little time on my hands. That’s when she started to accuse me of cheating so I quit that job thinking it would make her feel better but it didn’t. She doesn’t like to go out with her friends because she’s constantly expecting to hear from me. She says she thinks I’m cheating because I’m a guy. Last night, I finally worked up the nerve to tell that I masterbate alot differently then most guys and I don’t use my hand. I don’t need to go into detail but I have to use a condom to keep it from getting all over me. Thinking she’d understand, I told her, but instead she further believed that I’m cheating on her and keeps asking me questions about who this supposed other person is. What should I do?

my boyfriend is always accusing me of cheating i never have and never would all i want is for us to be happy and have a happy life together but we go a few days getting on really well then he starts again which is really frustrsting i dont know what to say or do to prove to him i never have and never would as i love him and he is enough for me i feel so lucky to have him in my life and couldnt imagine life without him what can i do?

Hey, know how you all are feeling, my gf, or should i say ex accused me yesterday and it really got to me, over comments left on my myspace by my female friend of all things. After putting bulletins online of how much of a jerk i am she only decided to ask me straight out when i got in touch with her. the lack of respect for me as some one she supposedly cares for is what did it for me, i didn’t even attempt to explain because you cant reason with someone who is that insecure, after trying so hard to be humble since the moment we met i lost patients and decided to stand up for myself, its safe to say its over now. my only advice would be to try and resolve the issues but at the same time dont allow your own boundaries of respect to be broken, if your partner takes it too far and doesn’t treat you how you should be treated then this is a sure shot warning of things to come.

I love her so much and I want to be with her but I can’t get her to believe me and I’m really getting tired of being accused!

My husband arranged for his cousin to come trick or treating with my 2 kids and stay the weekend with us. He has been working on his aunts house this girls grandma, she came to help him paint and help with other things. The first night that she helped he came home and said I can see why a certain person in our neighborhood did what she did to a little 14 year old boy. I then said ok should I be worried? He said no she is my cousin. So I felt like it was ok, but one night he sdecided to stay at his aunt’s house cause he didn’t have gas money to run back and forth and his cousin ended up staying there too. I still didn’t think i had anything to worry about. She helped at his aunts house a few more times once when his aunt wasn’t there. She then came for Halloween to my house and and was going to go trick or treating with my 5 year old and 13 month old. At first, I wondered where her friends were and why she wasn’t spending halloween with them and wanted to be with her 34 year old cousin. She is 14 years old. My 5 year old kept trying to get her to play with her and she wouldn’t. She didn’t even really go trick or treating. What had my suspictions was she kept poking and tickling my husband and she put ice down his back and then she would sit right next to him on the couch almost sitting on his lap. He woudn’t do anything back to her or would he get up and leave when she would sit by him. I mentioned something to him after we took her home and he just got really mad, and said there is nothing going on she is my cousin. I told him that I felt like she didn’t come to trick or treat with the kids she just came to hit on him. I hoped he would have said I don’t know https://brightwomen.net/es/mujeres-irlandesas/ why she was acting like that, but instead he just got mad and said that I just wanted to pick a fight and then started changing the subject and to start fighting about something else. Anyway I decided that maybe I was being silly so I laid off. So I thought everything was ok and I went to bed early and I woke up and noticed my husband was sleeping on the couch, so then I didn’t sleep at all and everything that happened over the weekend kept bugging me. So then i asked him why he slept out on the couch and he said cause i feel asleep out here, but he managed to turn off the TV and lights. I don’t know what to believe I have caught him lieing to me about something at work, so why wouldn’t he lie about this now?